### _Why are the changes needed?_
Make Spark 3.3 as default in build.md
### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible
- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate
- [ ] [Run test](https://kyuubi.apache.org/docs/latest/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request
Closes#3757 from Yikf/build-3.
Closes#3441
03873876 [Yikf] Make Spark 3.3 as default in build.md
Authored-by: Yikf <yikaifei1@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>