### _Why are the changes needed?_
add two conditions to decide if we should add shuffle.
1. make sure AQE is enabled, otherwise it is no meaning to add a shuffle
2. try to reduce the performance regression if add a shuffle
for condition 2: we do not add shuffle if the original plan does not have shuffle
### _How was this patch tested?_
- [x] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible
- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate
- [ ] [Run test](https://kyuubi.apache.org/docs/latest/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request
Closes#3962 from ulysses-you/no-shuffle.
Closes#3962
a084cccc [ulysses-you] address comment
9d0aab1b [ulysses-you] address comment
09fc9b21 [ulysses-you] fix ut
06f249a2 [ulysses-you] Reduce the performance regression
Authored-by: ulysses-you <ulyssesyou18@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: ulysses-you <ulyssesyou@apache.org>
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