### _Why are the changes needed?_
- Make Spark TPC-H connector compilable on Scala 2.13
- adding spark extensions to scala 2.13 compilation CI test
### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible
- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate
- [ ] [Run test](https://kyuubi.readthedocs.io/en/master/contributing/code/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request
### _Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?_
Closes#5195 from bowenliang123/scala213-conn.
Closes#5195
ad2558a16 [liangbowen] update
c50d29111 [liangbowen] update
d38eb3b6c [liangbowen] adapt spark connector plugin compilable on Scala 2.13
Authored-by: liangbowen <liangbowen@gf.com.cn>
Signed-off-by: liangbowen <liangbowen@gf.com.cn>
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