### _Why are the changes needed?_
- use Java SDK `openai-java` for ChatGPT which is popular and listed in official website, https://github.com/TheoKanning/openai-java
- Focus on lifecycle in ChatGPTProvider, and prevent handling lower-level concepts in details, like POJO mapping, HTTP request handling.
- follow the changes from upstream changes from OpenAI
### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible
- [x] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate
- [x] [Run test](https://kyuubi.readthedocs.io/en/master/develop_tools/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request
Closes#4556 from bowenliang123/chatgpt-third.
Closes#4556
ecf1e2cf6 [liangbowen] manually add `openai-gpt3-java:*` and its dependency to LICENSE-binary
53b8375a5 [liangbowen] refactor ChatGPTProvider to use `openai-java` SDK
Authored-by: liangbowen <liangbowen@gf.com.cn>
Signed-off-by: liangbowen <liangbowen@gf.com.cn>
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