### _Why are the changes needed?_
Improvement: https://github.com/apache/kyuubi/issues/4540
### _How was this patch tested?_
- [x] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible
- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate
- [x] [Run test](https://kyuubi.readthedocs.io/en/master/contributing/code/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request
### _Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?_
No
Closes#5182 from zhuyaogai/issue-4540.
Closes#4540
73652ae6d [Fantasy-Jay] Merge remote-tracking branch 'origin/issue-4540' into issue-4540
ae7a3b5bb [Fantasy-Jay] Support to deny some user to make connection.
46ee2f158 [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
3d7e5e534 [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
1f173ffe4 [Fantasy-Jay] Merge branch 'master' into issue-4540
1d3a3d47f [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
e4a1b3eb3 [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
1c120a992 [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
6b657aa99 [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
506c4751b [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
f99072ef5 [Fantasy-Jay] Support to limit some user to make connection.
Authored-by: Fantasy-Jay <13631435453@163.com>
Signed-off-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>