### _Why are the changes needed?_
fix bug https://github.com/apache/kyuubi/issues/5065
### _How was this patch tested?_
- [ ] Add some test cases that check the changes thoroughly including negative and positive cases if possible
- [ ] Add screenshots for manual tests if appropriate
- [ ] [Run test](https://kyuubi.readthedocs.io/en/master/contributing/code/testing.html#running-tests) locally before make a pull request
Closes#5066 from ASiegeLion/master.
Closes#5065
08d1ac077 [Cheng Pan] Update kyuubi-server/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/engine/ProcBuilder.scala
bf908f5af [Cheng Pan] Update kyuubi-server/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/engine/ProcBuilder.scala
9144582f9 [Cheng Pan] Update kyuubi-server/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/engine/ProcBuilder.scala
f1c95e409 [liupeiyue] [KYUUBI-#5065] Call destroy first on killing Spark startup process to allows it release temp files
907123a93 [liupeiyue] [KYUUBI-#5065] Call destroy first on killing Spark startup process to allows it release temp files
f30a9fc39 [liupeiyue] [KYUUBI-#5065] Call destroy first on killing Spark startup process to allows it release temp files
449be44d7 [文艺攻城狮] Update kyuubi-server/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/engine/ProcBuilder.scala
987ffc7fe [文艺攻城狮] Update kyuubi-common/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/config/KyuubiConf.scala
995386f98 [文艺攻城狮] Update kyuubi-common/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/config/KyuubiConf.scala
ad3d11191 [liupeiyue] [KYUUBI-#5065]destroy the spark engine release the submitted temp files
Lead-authored-by: liupeiyue <liupeiyue@yy.com>
Co-authored-by: 文艺攻城狮 <945076608@qq.com>
Co-authored-by: Cheng Pan <pan3793@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Cheng Pan <chengpan@apache.org>