[KYUUBI #379] Improve engine log capture
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1. limit error size with `kyuubi.session.engine.startup.error.max.size` to reduce long time pause or heap overhead
2. update `error` immediately when detecting errors at the very first line ASAP
3. Using `Exception:` instead of `Exception` to search each line to filter better
4. add the engine log address in the exception message in case of error bootstraping
### _How was this patch tested?_
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Closes #379 from yaooqinn/logsize.
7cf58da [Kent Yao] mute in console
b58a3a2 [Kent Yao] update
fbc4a0b [Kent Yao] update
0815f77 [Kent Yao] log
93f5f2f [Kent Yao] log
Authored-by: Kent Yao <yao@apache.org>
Signed-off-by: Kent Yao <yao@apache.org>
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