[KYUUBI #6627] Using concurrent collections for session operation handle set

# 🔍 Description
## Issue References 🔗

As mentioned in https://github.com/apache/kyuubi/pull/6626, the operation never idle because of periodical get operation status, but in my opinion, the operations should be closed after session closed, but it did not.

Currently, for session operation handles set, it does not use concurrent collections, I wonder there is concurrent update issue.

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Closes #6627 from turboFei/operation_set.

Closes #6627

2b80c25e1 [Wang, Fei] revert
57e4dbfa2 [Wang, Fei] using concurrent
bbd9ecf6a [Wang, Fei] use concurrent hash map

Authored-by: Wang, Fei <fwang12@ebay.com>
Signed-off-by: Wang, Fei <fwang12@ebay.com>
(cherry picked from commit 9a82eb5c12)
Signed-off-by: Wang, Fei <fwang12@ebay.com>

kyuubi-common/src/main/scala/org/apache/kyuubi/session/AbstractSession.scala

@@ -17,6 +17,8 @@
 
 package org.apache.kyuubi.session
 
+import java.util.concurrent.ConcurrentHashMap
+
 import scala.collection.JavaConverters._
 
 import org.apache.kyuubi.{KyuubiSQLException, Logging}
@@ -59,7 +61,7 @@ abstract class AbstractSession(
 
   override lazy val name: Option[String] = normalizedConf.get(SESSION_NAME.key)
 
-  final private val opHandleSet = new java.util.HashSet[OperationHandle]
+  final private val opHandleSet = ConcurrentHashMap.newKeySet[OperationHandle]()
 
   private def acquire(userAccess: Boolean): Unit = synchronized {
     if (userAccess) {