### What changes were proposed in this pull request?
Simplify `DirectByteBuffer` constructor lookup logic in `Platform`. Meanwhile, bump `commons-lang3` version from `3.12.0` to `3.13.0`.
### Why are the changes needed?
`try-catch` statement is not needed because we know version number already.
Backport:
- https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/41780
- https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/42269
- https://github.com/apache/spark/pull/44444
### Does this PR introduce _any_ user-facing change?
No.
### How was this patch tested?
GA.
Closes#2544 from SteNicholas/CELEBORN-1327.
Authored-by: SteNicholas <programgeek@163.com>
Signed-off-by: mingji <fengmingxiao.fmx@alibaba-inc.com>
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